How Vintage Gave Me Confidence

It's no secret to those who know or have met me that I live and breathe vintage fashion and decor. One thing people may not know is that I've always struggled with self-acceptance and low self-esteem from a very young age. I came from a very critical home where my Dad felt "Tough Love" was preferable to a loving relationship.
From this I found my escape in Antique Shops and Vintage Stores where I found myself completely lost in other times and eras. For awhile, it was hard for me to be in the present since I always lived in the past, so to speak. It wasn't until I went to college, that I finally started to see that I could have confidence by incorporating my love of vintage into my current life and not be afraid of what others would think. It's been a long and winding road, which I'm still trucking along on, but I take comfort in knowing that in this day and age, our differences are what connects us.

Me in front of my lovely shower curtain wearing a vintage "Lady Marlene" Waist Cincher, Vintage Bustier and a Vintage Fox Fur Coat from my Late Grandma

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